Rnb singer R Kelly claimed
that he was a victim of abuse while he was growing up. He said that the abuse began when he was just
8 and it continued up until his teenage years.
R.Kelly who in 2008 was
found not guilty on 14 charges in a child pornography court case has revealed
that he was sexually abused by a female relative at a young age.
R.Kelly said it all started
one day when he fell asleep in front of the TV and was awoken from “a crazy
dream about Three's Company” to find a woman playing with him. Speaking to
Chris Heath in an interview with GQ Magazine, he said:
''I tried to push her away,
but she wouldn't stop until she was finished. When she was, she said, “You
better not say shit to no one or else you gonna get a terrible whupping.”
He also revealed in the
interview that a family friend also offered him money to masturbate him while
he was younger and says the experience had a negative impact on his childhood.
“At first, I couldn't judge
it,” “I remember it feeling weird. I remember feeling ashamed. I remember
closing my eyes or keeping my hands over my eyes. I remember those things, but
couldn't judge it one way or the other fully.”‘I, well, definitely forgive them.
As I’m older, I look at it and I know that it had to be not just about me and
them, but them and somebody older than them when they were younger. I looked at
it as if there was a sort of like, I don’t know, a generational curse, so to
speak,going down through the family.’
Asked why the generational
curse didn’t pass down to him, Kelly replied that he ‘opted to break it’ but
added that misunderstandings occurred as his song lyrics were ‘taken far too
literally’.
"As I’m older, I’ve
only learned to forgive it. Was it wrong? Absolutely. But it’s a family member
that I love so I would definitely say no to that one. To be honest, even if my
mom, I saw her kill somebody, I’m not gonna say, “Well, yeah, she definitely
should go to jail.” It’s just something I wouldn’t do.’
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