Claire Dalton called off
her wedding a week before the big day - after discovering her fiance watched
porn.
A woman has revealed she
cancelled her dream wedding just a week before the big day - after discovering
her fiancé watched porn.
Claire Dalton's ex kept the
habit secret from her throughout their four-year friendship and relationship
and she was so shocked she called off the marriage - despite having spent six
months planning it.
The 21-year-old is very
religious and said she has been dreaming of a relationship which was "true
and pure" and "governed by God's law" since she was young girl,
in a blog post written for Love What Matters.
She thought she'd found
that with her unnamed fiancé, who she split from a year ago, but now believes
it was "all a lie from the beginning".
Just a week before the
wedding American Claire, who's a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter
Day Saints (Mormons), and her fiancé were running errands for their big day -
and she checked his phone to see if a shop was still open.
But when she saw his search
bar, she realised he had "been searching for pornography possibly just
hours ago", and immediately "felt sick to (her) stomach".
At first, her husband-to-be
lied and said his brother had borrowed his phone, before later admitting:
"It's me... I have a problem."
She added: "At first,
I thought it was some sick joke. It
never occurred to me that pornography addiction would ever leak into my life or
affect me in such a deep and excruciating way."
After hearing him admit the
truth, Claire decided to call off the wedding - and had to call every one of
her 300 guests to break the news.
But she said it wasn't so
much the porn which was the problem, but the fact that he'd lied about it for
years.
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