A truly aggrieved man who
has been badly hurt by his wife, has told his story, revealing her shocking act
of infidelity.
In his story, the man
explained that he caught his wife with another man right inside their
matrimonial home when she thought he had travelled out of town.
According to him, on the
day he was supposed to travel tout of town the woman sent him her n*de photos
by mistake. She was apparently going to send them to someone else.
He decided to pay along and
called her so that she would not think he was suspicious of her. However, he
came home unannounced after some time, and caught her with another man right
inside their home.
The development has left
him totally devastated. Now he is seeking for matured response on how to handle
the issue.
The man’s story was told by
Jhasper Dhave, an editor at MTVBaseAfrica. Below is how he told it:
“HE NEEDS A MATURED ADVICE
ON THIS MATTER!
My Wife Accidentally Sent
Me Her **** Photos Meant For Her Boyfriend
I dated my wife for two
years before we got married. We didn’t have it smooth from dating until the day
we got married. We went through tough times trying to convince our respective
parents to accept our relationship. The day she introduced me to her parent as
the guy she wanted to marry, her father looked me straight in the eyes and said
no, he won’t allow that to happen. He had no legitimate reasons apart from the
fact that he didn’t like my tribe and I didn’t look like a man who could take
good care of his daughter.
“When it got to my turn to
introduce her to my parent, it was my mother who screamed; “Over my dead body
would I allow you to marry such a woman.”
What was the reason for
opposition? Like the father of my girlfriend, my mum also didn’t like the tribe
of my wife. All through our dating life as partners, her dad never saw eye to
eye with me and my mom never welcome my wife into our home.
When we finally got married
in the church on the 14th April 2012, my mom didn’t attend the wedding and her dad
also didn’t attend. We had to do it without them because they were bent on
separating us.
We had a peaceful home and
barely had anything to disagree on. Occasionally, either my mom or her dad
would try to come in between us but we had a way of handling them without
causing us any trouble. I’m a salesperson. I handle the biggest territory in
our company’s supply chain channels.
Due to this, I travel a lot
but most of my travels don’t take me away for more than three days. Yeah,
occasionally my wife complained. Her complaints had nothing to do with my
absence due to my incessant travels. She was concerned about the way I was
always on the road and how sometimes I had to travel deep in the night.
“She was right. I also had
concerns about that but I had a home to run and I needed money to run the home
so I had little option than to continue doing my job.
One Friday morning, as I
was leaving home for work, I told my wife I had to travel to Cape Coast after
work but I might not travel unless a call came through from Cape Coast that
they needed the supplies urgently. In the afternoon, she called to ask if the
call had come through and I said yes. I sent her a message around 6 pm that
I’ve set off and she wished me a safe a journey.
About thirty minutes later
after I’ve set off, my phone flickered, indicating I’ve had a Whatsapp message
from my wife. I didn’t open the message. About three minutes later, another
message came in from her, and then a call followed. I usually don’t pick calls
while I’m driving so I found a safe spot and parked so I could call her back.
I opened the messages. The
first message had two nude photos of herself with a message; “Hello dear, the
way is clear now. I can’t wait to have you here,” and ended with the kiss
smiley.
“Immediately, my hands
started shaking and my heart started beating very loud and out of rhythm. All
of a sudden, my feet couldn’t support my weight and I had to lean on the car. I
rushed to open the second message and it said; “Hello dear, don’t mind me. I’m
only trying to pull your legs and show you what you’re missing while away.” The
message also ended with the tears of joy smiley.
“There and then I knew what
was happening. The little voice in my head kept screaming at me; “Your wife is
cheating. She’s cheating on you. Your wife is cheating.” I stood there for some
minutes to calm myself down and regain my composure.
I wanted to call her but I
didn’t want to sound worried or disturbed. I wanted her to know that I believed
what she said that it was a joke. I wanted an assurance in my voice when I
spoke to her.
When I called her back, I
smiled and said; “Do you think I wouldn’t know you were joking?” Then I forced
myself to give out a loud laughter. I found calm and believe in her voice when
she spoke. We both laughed at it and I hung up to continue my journey.
“Yeah, I had the message
and the nude that showed she was cheating but it wasn’t enough proof. I needed
to find something solid to nail her.
“That night she stayed on
the phone with me throughout talking about things that were mostly unnecessary.
She wanted to prove a point. Somehow, she wanted to prove to me that indeed,
she didn’t invite anyone over that’s why she was able to talk to me all night.
I could sense her desperation to prove a point.
“When I got home from the
trip, I woke up at dawn to read her messages but her password was changed. That
heightened my suspicion and the need to work hard to find out who the man was.
“For the next six months, I
tried all the avenues of how to catch a cheating wife but none yielded a
result. I told her I was traveling but then hang around the house in the night
to see if a man would walk into the house or if she would leave the house to
see someone. She was always in the house and no one walked in and she didn’t
walk out.
It became frustrating for
me and I could barely enjoy my marriage because of these suspicions and CID
jobs. I decided to let everything go so I could concentrate on building my
relationship with her.
“My mother’s senior sister
died and we had to attend the funeral in my hometown. For obvious reasons, she
didn’t attend the funeral and I had to go alone.
“When I got to my hometown
on Friday evening, I called her phone, she didn’t pick. Later in the night, she
called to tell me she was sleeping and that she had developed a severe headache
when she woke up. She asked me to take care as she wanted to continue with her
sleep.
I said my good night and
hung up the phone. But something didn’t feel right. I didn’t know what that was
but I could feel it. All of a sudden I wasn’t happy and felt like I’ve lost
something very dear to me. I started battling with my thought but there was
nothing I could lay hands on as the reason for my feeling.
“It was close to 10pm when
I decided to drive back home to check on her if really she was sleeping as she
said. I know, I still hadn’t overcome my suspicion of her. It was hard to let
go of my conviction that the woman I married was cheating on me.
“Just about three hours
later, I was at the doorstep of my house and my car parked a little bit far
from home so the sound of the car’s engine would not wake her up.
The hall light was on. The
TV was on too. I turned the knob slowly and it was locked. I inserted my key
and opened the door. There he was. A gentleman. He was wearing only a boxer
short and holding the tv remote in his hand. The shock in his eyes when he saw
me satisfied my spirit. It was like a victory of some sort to me.
“I asked him; “where is my wife?”
I had to repeat the question three times before he pointed the remote at the
bedroom indicating where my wife was. I walked there and truly, she was
sleeping. Naked. Her pant was on the floor closed to a used condom and the
trouser of the gentleman. I screamed her name and she jerked off from her
sleep. You can imagine the horror in her eyes when she saw me
“She started looking
around—I guessed she was looking for the gentleman so I said; “I left him at
the hall. I would be surprised if he’s still there.” She started pleading
profusely and asking me to forgive her and spare her life. I told her, “I don’t
have the strength to destroy a life I didn’t create. I’m only happy that my
investigation paid off after several months.” “
“My calm that night surprised
me. It was as though it didn’t hurt to find your wife in your matrimonial bed
with another man. But then, I remembered how I felt the day I got the nude
photos and I was glad I didn’t allow myself to go through that pain again.
“I walked away from the
bedroom. I couldn’t see the gentleman when I got to the hall—well, that was
expected. I went to where I parked the car and drove away to a friend’s house.
“For the next one week or
so, I stayed with my friend and didn’t pick any call from her.
“I don’t know what else to
do about this issue and coupled with my mom complain of not liking her and this
happened I don’t how to explain this to her.
“Please I need a matured
advice on how to settle this issue.”
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