Lady Narrates How Father Raped Her For 12 Years

Twenty-four year-old Zizo Apleni decided to speak about her rape ordeal at the start of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence in South Africa.

Zizo is a gender activist and has written the book, My Father Took My Innocence after she was raped by her father between 2001 and 2013. She was seven when the first incident occurred.

Zizo said she used to visit her father often.

“As I was young, I didn’t know what he was doing was wrong. I only found out what he was doing after our hostel manager taught us not to have sex with our boyfriends.

“When I got home, I told my father what our hostel manager told us. He started threatening me and said I should never report it, because no one would believe me.”

Her mum didn’t know about it until 2013, when Zizo fell pregnant.

“I told her my father had been raping me for years. We reported it to the police and he was bust the same day. I was helped to abort the baby. In 2016, he was sentenced to 12 years in prison. My mum was very supportive.”

Eluncedweni community-based support centre project manager Nombasa Matwele said: “Rape cases must be reported. Our message is residents must guard each other.”