"I am distraught and devastated to hear of the recent allegation of rape brought against a relative of mine, Daniel Okereke (my brother).
While
it is a very difficult time for me, and my family; I feel the need to make
clear my position, lest there be any doubt. Rape is rape, regardless of who the
face of the accused is.
Indeed,
the irony is not lost on me.
I have spent my lifelong career advocating and
living my conviction that women around the world should be able to live free of
violence, sexual harassment or any form of abuse against their persons.
This
conviction led me to be involved in numerous initiatives combating violence
against women in several countries including the U.S, Liberia and Sierra Leone.
The
conviction also led me to place much of my energy on my work with Vesico
Vaginal Fistula (VVF), a passion that dates back to my time at the University
of Calabar.
As
a student, I heard a story about young girls who had been forced into early
marriage and were suffering the negative and embarrassing effects of VVF. The
story stayed in my consciousness and drove me, for years, to seek ways to raise
awareness on the condition; leading to my work with a team of dedicated doctors
to carry out repair surgeries for VVF victims across the country; and my
self-produced, soon to be released movie, ‘DRY.’
So,
again, it is indeed heart breaking for me to receive and deal with news
alleging a family member of mine is an alleged perpetrator of sexual violence
against a woman. I am devastated.
This
case is now in Nigeria’s criminal justice system as the accused awaits
arraignment. I have also encouraged and assured the alleged victim of my stance
against rape and applaud her for her bravery to upset the culture of silence,
in Nigeria; even as I accord deference and patiently wait for the criminal
justice system to determine the guilt or innocence of my brother.
For
Nigerian press and blogs; I call on you to please report this case in an
ethical manner. I am a married woman living my life. The alleged transgression
of my relative does not make it mine. The focus should be the impact of rape on
the alleged victim, and resources for other alleged victims, not me.
Some
members of the press and blogs have turned me into the accuser; using my name
for sensational headlines and putting my images, exclusively, in their stories.
This is a form of victimization of me as a woman, its unethical and extremely
hurtful. I am not the alleged accused.
I
therefore please ask all bloggers and the media who have placed my pictures and
name to this story to refrain from further using me to sensationalise this
story.
I
thank my fans and all well-wishers for your continued support and ask for your
continued prayers.
God
bless.
Negative price you pay for fame
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