The 26-year-old is now
sharing her story in the hope that it will help other victims of abuse.
Sarah thought that she had
the fairy-tale marriage when she met Charlie Tetley in a pub when she was 18.
Although he was eight years
her senior, the couple instantly hit it off and began a relationship.
In 2009, they completed
their family when Sarah fell pregnant with their daughter, who is now four
years old.
But gradually, Charlie’s
behaviour became more and more controlling and he would tell Sarah where she
could be and how to behave with their child.
Despite some reservations
about his personality, Sarah agreed when her boyfriend proposed, thinking that
marriage might iron out the problems in their relationship.
So the couple married in
2011 at a local church in front of all of their family and friends.He refused
to let his wife use his computer and would regularly shut himself away in their
bedroom in the evening. Sarah feared her husband was having an affair behind
her back, but the truth was far worse – he had been raping her while she slept
at night and recording the assaults.
She made the discovery one
morning when she woke up to find Charlie attacking her.
As well as raping his wife,
Charlie would also film himself molesting her with various household objects.
She told This Morning:
‘At the time I thought,
I'll just pretend I'm still asleep and see what's going on.
‘He stopped pretty quickly
and I left the bedroom and went downstairs and sat up watching some rubbish on
telly.’
After her husband left for
work, she fled to her neighbour’s house and told them what was going on.
The neighbour convinced
Sarah to report her story to the police and officers came over immediately to
take more details.
‘I was told they had found
a bunch of videos showing Charlie raping and abusing me.
‘The officer said they were
quite disturbing and that I needed to come to the station for an examination
and drug testing because of the nature of the assaults and that I appeared to
be unconscious in the videos.’
Sarah had her hair, blood
and urine samples tested, but both her blood and urine tests came back from the
lab negative and her hair sample was inconclusive.
Then a few months later,
Sarah was called back to the police station and asked to watch a few of the 300
recordings that Charlie had amassed over the years of him molesting her.The
officers asked her to look over the footage ahead of the court case against her
husband.
She told This Morning that
she was horrified by what she saw in the footage
She said:
‘A couple of the videos I
watched you couldn't hear me be breathing and I didn't really appear to be
moving at all. I did look like I was dead in some of them.
‘A lot of the videos
weren’t just of him but of household objects and things he would decide to do
with those, it was quite disturbing.’
One of the things that
shocked her the most was that she had no idea that the abuse had been going on.
On March 28, 2014, Charlie
attended Leicester Crown Court and pleaded guilty to five counts of rape,
attempted rape, eight counts of assault by penetration, three of sexual assault
and ten of making indecent images of children.
He was sentenced to 12
years in prison.
Since arrest, Sarah has
suffered from panic attacks and depression. But over the last few months, she
has tried to come to terms with the abuse and move on with her life.
She has divorced Charlie
and is now in a loving relationship with the neighbour who supported her after
the attack and encouraged her to call the police.
This Morning
Beast of a man
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