The Indian Jagan reported Sandra to
the police on February 27, 2016, for battering and threat to life. The lovers
had already done the traditional marriage introduction, with the proper wedding
slated for February 2016, when trouble started. Police said they may have to
charge Sandra with assault.
Twenty-seven years old
Sandra was arrested for battering her Indian lover.
The twenty-three years jagan wept as he fielded questions from detectives attached
to the Domestic Violence Unit of the Festac Police Station.
Jagan has a plastered
elbow, blackened right eye and was limping. He said his chest was also hurting
him. According to him, Sandra gave him the black eye.
He sustained the elbow, leg
and chest injuries after he fell off a commercial motorbike. He however alleged
that his fall wasn’t an accident. He explained that a man, who had been tailing
him since Sandra “threatened to deal” with him used a motorbike to ram into the
back of his. He and his rider fell down, leading to him sustaining the
injuries.
The cyclist, who knocked
him down bolted. Jagan felt the man who knocked him down was hired by Sandra to
harm him. Sandra denied sending anyone after Jagan.
But Jagan said he was not
interested in going to court. He said he was leaving Nigeria for Indian.
Choking on his tears, he said: “I now understand everything.
Sandra has gotten all she
wants from me. I’m broke. She doesn’t want me anymore. ” Jagan said he reported
Sandra to the police because she was threatening his life.
He said it was after Sandra
threatened to deal with him, that he had the ‘life threatening accident,’ on
motorbike. He further explained that he wanted the police to compel Sandra to
write an undertaking that she wouldn’t hurt him in anyway.
Revealing the genesis of
their trouble, Jagan said he met Sandra at Trade Fair International Market.
She’s a trader. They got chatting and later started dating. Jagan was working
with an Indian Company back then.
The lovers soon started
discussing marriage. According to him, he rented an apartment for her and
handed over his Automatic Teller Machine (ATM), card to her, as proof of his
love.
One day, he received a
letter from his company; the letter was a transfer to Kano State. The lovers
discussed and agreed that Jagan shouldn’t move to Kano.
Moreover, they were both
worried about the Boko Haram heat. The Indian said: “I refused the transfer
because I wanted to be with her.
I resigned and started my
own business. I rented a bedroom apartment for her. I travelled to Indian and
came back. I had nobody, but her. But she goes out and returns late at night.
She was endangering my
life. I don’t want to say what I suspected she was doing. But when I got
information that she was in a hotel, I went there to confirm things for myself.
And I saw her.”
When Jagan got to that part
of the story, he started weeping again. Sandra, who glanced at him with scorn,
said that when Jagan came into the hotel room, he sat by her bed, knelt down by
her side and started crying.
According to her, Jagan
then attempted to strangle her to death. Before they reached the stage where
Jagan went to confront Sandra in the hotel, the lovers had had series of
quarrels and fights.
After Jagan returned from
Indian, he moved in with Sandra. It was while living with her that he
discovered she was a night crawler.
He didn’t like it. He told
her that a woman should be hidden, not given to flaunting herself. Sandra
accused him of being too jealous and possessive.
She said: “He said I should
be like Indian women. But I don’t want to be like Indian women. He wants me to
be covering myself, I can’t. Whenever I speak with anybody, he gets angry. I
can’t live that way!”
The lovers started
fighting. Jagan even accused Sandra of using hammer to hit him during one of
their fights. After one of their numerous quarrels, Sandra threw Jagan’s things
out of the apartment.
The apartment was rented in
Sandra’s name. Jagan moved into a hotel. His new found business had already
started to crumble. Just when Jagan was getting his life straightened out, he
received a cry for help text message from Sandra. He said: “Sandra said she was
sick. She said if she didn’t see me, she would die. I ran to see her.”
The reunion didn’t last
long. They started fighting again, with Sandra accusing Jagan of stealing her
Ipad. Jagan, whom police said found it hard to tell lies, confessed to have
once destroyed her SIM card, but denied stealing her Ipad. Remembering the
hotel incident, Jagan said: “I went to the hotel to confirm what I had been
hearing. It was true.
I slapped her neck. My
finger injured her. I didn’t try to strangle her. She was toying with my life.
Today, I regret leaving my company because of her.”
He further recounted that
he was going to the same hotel a few days later to have a drink, when Sandra
ran out, armed with bottle and attacked him. She tore his clothes. He said:
“She was armed with a bottle; she held and started dragging me. She wanted to
kill me. I called the police. I later noticed a guy following me.
I don’t have anybody in
Nigeria. If I die here, I’ll die for nothing. The guy caused my accident. He
used a motorbike to knock into the one I hired. I and my motorbike rider fell.
I almost died.”
Jagan, who was known to
Sandra’s family, said her parents were not in support of her actions. Jagan
said that Sandra only wanted him because of his money and when she realized he
was broke, she ended the relationship.
Sandra said: “He called police for me because I told him
that I didn’t want the relationship anymore.”
She
said that even after she told him that it was all over between them, Jagan
traced her to the hotel, where she had gone to lodge. Sandra recounted: “He came into the hotel, sat on the bed and
started crying.
He
grabbed my neck and tried to strangle me. I struggled with him. He wanted to
kill me. I screamed. People came to save me.
We’re
supposed to go for court wedding, but I don’t want him anymore. We started
dating a year ago. He’s too jealous. He said I shouldn’t speak with anyone,
including women.
He
said he wanted me to be a proper Indian woman.”

Jagan go home peacefully.leave sandra to her prostitution .
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