Nollywood
actress, Damilola Adegbite whose two-year-old marriage to Ghanaian actor, Chris
Attoh packed up this year with the latter confirming their separation in an
interview, took to Instagram to indirectly address the divorce saga as she
reflected on the year.
Damilola who
said her trust was betrayed this year, wrote;
“2017 was a tough year for me. One of
the toughest of my life. My trust was betrayed in heart breaking ways and I had
to go through some very painful overwhelming changes. But in all this, I am
eternally grateful because who I am became crystal clear to me. Most
importantly, I became more convinced that there is a higher power (call it
nature, karma, the universe.. I choose “GOD”). A GOD who listens when called on
and who fights for the patient and selfless. He gave me some things I thought I
really really wanted, to prove to me that there is nothing impossible for him
to do, but he took them away again, this time by force, because sometimes, what
we want is not necessarily good for us. I
t’s an uncomfortable process, like a
child being weaned, but it signifies growth and advancement. I can’t deny that
my scars are still healing, and I’m still a little dizzy from trying to adjust
?but ultimately, I am thankful for the opportunity to have been handed an
almost brand new slate and for the courage to accept it.
This coming year, if things aren’t
going the way you planned, sometimes, you may just have to take some steps back
or away and choose to look at things from a different angle. I promise you,
there is always a silver lining. When you are treated unjustly, you don’t
always have to fight back or retaliate. Sometimes all you need to do is WALK
AWAY from the situation. The law of karma will sort things out. Watever
happens, trust that things are falling in place as they need to FOR YOUR GOOD.
Stay POSITIVE and CHEERFUL, train yourself not to hold on to anything or anyone
too tightly and never let anyone or any situation dim your LIGHT. I wish you
and your loved ones a prosperous new year. May 2018 be the best year of our
lives so far ? I don’t know about you but I am super SUPER excited about my
future?”
Greater times ahead dear
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