Ummmh
is no longer a joke, there must be something these horrible Nigerian men are
doing to their fellow African women, it seems to be the trend lately, I think
is men generally not Nigerian men, because some Nigerian women too lament
passionately about their partners which happens to be Nigerian but firstly as
men not Nigerian men or may be am wrong. Then again some Nigerian men are terrible to be honest, may God direct women. My opinion- Blogger K
According to Nairobi News, a
Kenyan writer warns women to stir away from all Nigerian men, they are
deceptive, conmen!
Below is an article from the Kenyan writer:
By City Girl
Below is an article from the Kenyan writer:
By City Girl
“What is it with Kenyan
women and Nigerian men? What is it with those short, stocky bearded West
African mohines that make Kenyan women move planets for them?
We have heard enough
stories about how Kenyan women borrowed loans for their Nigerian boyfriends to
pay for ‘containers with goods worth millions’ stuck at the port only for the
Nigerian man to disappear.
I know Kenyan women whose
careers and lives have come to a standstill after a Nigerian man swept them
clean, and I mean clean; car, house, land, money… everything.
So today, ladies, I chose
to address this topic, once and for all. After this, I don’t expect any of you
to be conned by a so-called ‘romantic’ Nigerian man. I will only say this once.
Stay away from Nigerian
men! All Nigerian men are conmen. Repeat after me; “All Nigerian men are
conmen”. There are no exceptions here. When you see a Nigerian man, run the
other way. Don’t stop to invoke the name of Jesus or pray. Just take cover.
While you are at it, here
are a few pointers you need to look out for in a Nigerian man. If he exhibits
any of these traits, then you are dealing with a riffraff.
1. He is too romantic: You
have never met a man like him. He treats you like a glass statue and worships
the ground you walk on. He is not like the unromantic Kenyan men who don’t text
you back or return your calls. He calls you ‘baby’ all the time except when he
calls you ‘my queen’.
You have never been
immersed in so much love and affection. You are literally intoxicated in his
love. He will even paint your toenails and shampoo your hair. Red flag.
He is fattening you up for
slaughter. He is warming your heart. Softening you up by leading you to believe
that you have found the one. It is not humanly possible for a man to be 100 per
cent romantic, 24 hours a day, seven days a week. That romantic Nigerian man is
up to something.
2. He throws money at you:
No man in his right mind will throw money at a woman. Kwani wewe ni nani? But
this Nigerian is the most generous man you have ever met in your life. He even
gives you money before you ask for it because ‘you are special and you deserve
it’.
He debunks every myth you
have ever heard about Nigerian men swindling women off their money. You relax and
put your guard down. You think that the Lord has finally smiled upon you and
given you a wonderful man who is not only loving, but also rich. All those
prayers you prayed for a husband have finally been answered. Shock on you.
He is making an investment
and he knows what he is doing. He will shower you with gifts and money
amounting to Sh1 million, knowing very well that he will con you Sh3 million
and make a profit Sh2 million. Tax free.
One day, when you least
expect, he will strike. He will be in dire need of some Sh2 million for a deal
and because he has created an illusion of wealth, you will readily give in. You
will run to the sacco and borrow some Sh2 million. That will be the beginning
of your downfall.
3. He moves in with you: So
he gives you a cock and bull story about how he is putting up with a friend in
Kileleshwa but has been unsuccessfully looking for a house. You pity him and
allow him to put up with you in your house for a short while before he finds a bigger
house for the two of you.
4. He drives your car: My
friends told me this, and I couldn’t believe it. How does a woman give her man
her car to go drinking out with the ‘boys’ as she takes a matatu to work?
Only a woman with a
Nigerian boyfriend can do that. So he uses cabs all the time and you think it
is just unfair for him to spend so much money on cabs, yet you have a car. You
lend him yours and before you know it, he is dropping you to work in your car,
goes out drinking with his friends in your car and suddenly that car is no longer
yours. Be warned.
A real man does not drive
woman’s car and a smart woman does not allow a man to use her car to run his
errands. If he doesn’t have a car, let him use a cab or buy one.
5. He has mysterious
‘trips’: He purports to be a businessman but you are not exactly sure what he
does for a living. He travels often to Dubai, China, Thailand and Singapore for
‘business trips’.
You don’t care what he does
for a living mainly because of all the goodies he brings you. Lingerie.
Expensive shoes. Perfumes. Dresses. Bags.
He says he does business
but has never really taken you to his office, nor have you met any of his
business partners. Be especially wary of those Nigerians who purport to sell
gold or cars.
He hasn’t given you a
business card, but you are still okay with it because he seems flashy and talks
big. Silly girl.
One day you are going about
your business and the next day you are a suspect for a car-theft syndicate and
police will insist that you are harbouring a criminal on Interpol’s watch list.
And you thought he loved you for your great personality!
6. You run errands for him:
He takes you on a ‘holiday’ to China and throws money at your feet. He allows
you to buy whatever you like because ‘you are special and you deserve it’.
On your way back, he tells
you to carry a package for him to deliver to his friend because he has no space
in his bag. You readily agree. I mean, after all the bags he has bought you,
you must have some space. Foolish girl.
That man is using you as a
conduit for drugs and you only realise it when you are frantically calling your
aging relatives from the airport cells. The Nigerian man is long gone.
You have been warned. Stay
away from Nigerian men.
By City Girl
Nairobi News
I agree they are the most useless being I've ever had encounter with.
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ReplyDeleteD BABE SAID IT AS IT IS, NA WA NAIJA MEN, SO DISGUSTING!
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